For many clients, the appointment of a Guardian ad Litem (“GAL”) causes significant consternation. This attorney, who does not know the parties or the children, will now have a significant say in the allocation of parental responsibilities and parenting time. After meeting with the parties, children, and witnesses, the GAL’s job is to make a recommendation to the Court as to what is in the best interests of the children as it pertains to the allocation of decision-making and parenting time.
Once a GAL has been appointed, you first need to develop the themes of your case. You need three to five main points that you emphasize in nearly every interaction you have with the Guardian ad Litem. This approach makes it easier for the GAL to remember your case and your story. Instead of immediately overwhelming the Guardian with every detail of the case, the GAL can draw out specifics from you to understand your position.
Next, cultivate a list of individuals with whom you would like the GAL to speak about you, your spouse, your children, and your abilities as a parent. Regardless of whom you refer to the Guardian, they should be able to substantiate your main themes. While there is no doubt that your family members would tell the GAL what a great parent you are, it is better to focus on objective witnesses. Parties often refer GALs to counselors, doctors, and teachers. If you coach your children or lead their scout troop, parents of some of the other kids may be good witnesses.
Lastly, keep the Guardian informed about your case effectively. You do not want to contact the GAL every day, but you also do not want the GAL asking herself “Who?” when her assistant says you are on the line. Use every call, meeting, and email to strategically tell your story. When communicating about the events that have happened in your case, tie them back to your main themes. After phone calls, send the GAL an email summarizing your discussion. If you have documentary evidence, like photos or text messages, provide them to him/her.
If parenting time and decision-making are at issue in your case, call the dedicated team at Beermann LLP. We have the ability and the resources you need to protect your interests and those of your children.
Will Ryan, Associate
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