The holidays can be a magical time for families, even after divorce. While it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by custody schedules and conflicting traditions, the truth is that a little planning and cooperation can go a long way toward creating joyful memories for your children. Illinois courts prioritize the best interests of the child, and as a parent, you can do the same by focusing on what matters most: your kids’ happiness. Think of the holidays as an opportunity to model kindness and flexibility, showing your children that love and family aren’t bound to one household—or one perfect plan.
A well-thought-out parenting plan can bring peace to the holiday season, and it doesn’t have to be complicated. Whether you alternate holidays, split time on key days, or celebrate traditions on separate weekends, the goal is to create stability while still embracing new possibilities. This is also a chance to build your own unique traditions—think baking cookies, decorating a tree, or hosting a special movie night. By keeping the focus on your kids and the joy of the season, you can avoid unnecessary conflict and make the holidays a time your family treasures, no matter the circumstances.
Leonidas L. Bezanis II, Associate
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