Going through a divorce is widely considered one of the most stressful times in a person’s life. As a divorce attorney, I see every client feel that stress while going through the divorce process. Each parent feels that they may lose their relationship with their children. Most people also feel that their financial future is not secure. Each person must find ways to de-stress during the divorce process and ensure that they maintain perspective throughout the divorce process.
A competent and attentive divorce attorney can walk you through the divorce process and help alleviate the stress and anxiety that comes with a divorce as well as help you maintain the perspective you need to move forward after your divorce is concluded. Communication back and forth between attorneys and clients helps keep your perspective on the “long game” instead of on the anxiety and day-to-day stress of the divorce process. While it may feel that you can never reach a stage of peace and calm while going through a divorce, there is light at the end of the tunnel.
In most divorce cases, parties get along better after the divorce process than during the divorce process. Most issues surrounding the children are alleviated after the divorce process is concluded and parents are able to take stock and move on with their lives. While it may feel that there is no hope or happier ending after your divorce is concluded, with proper guidance and perspective from an experienced and compassionate attorney, you can see that the end of your divorce is the beginning of a new chapter instead of the end.
Andrew B. Ference, Partner
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