When it comes to divorce and parenting disputes, solid evidence can make all the difference. A judge will not just take your word for it—you need proof. Whether you are documenting financial misconduct, missed parenting time, or inappropriate behavior, keeping thorough records can strengthen your case.
Document Issues as They Arise
Do not rely on memory. Save screenshots, emails, and call logs the moment something happens. If your co-parent repeatedly fails to show up for visitation, track each instance with dates and times. If they send hostile messages, keep copies. If your spouse is dissipating assets, keep track of the expenses. A well-documented pattern of behavior carries far more weight than vague accusations.
Track Parenting Time Exercised (or Not Exercised)
Keep a detailed record of when your co-parent’s parenting time is exercised—or ignored. A missed weekend here and there may seem minor, but a pattern of inconsistency could be crucial if you need to modify parenting time or child support arrangements.
Keep Communications in Writing
Whenever possible, communicate via email or text rather than phone calls. Written communication creates a record that can be used in court, while verbal disputes often turn into “he said, she said.” If necessary, use a court-approved co-parenting app, such as Our Family Wizard, to ensure all messages are saved and professional.
Watch Those Contact Names
Your text evidence loses credibility when your co-parent’s contact name is saved as “Loser,” “Deadbeat,” or something worse. Even if their behavior is frustrating, professionalism matters. A judge may see such labels as petty and undermine your case. Keep it neutral—use their real name.
At Beermann LLP, we help clients build strong cases backed by facts. If you are facing an issue in your legal battle, contact us today for legal guidance on best supporting your case.
Claire M. Cunningham, Associate
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